I may have been known for avidly shipping Cole and KJ, but I have absolutely nothing against Lili, and neither do I hold any disrespect towards those who ship Cole and Lili a.k.a. Sprousehart or Bughead. In fact, I also like Cole and Lili, and I do think they look really adorable together too, both in real life and as Bughead on Riverdale.
I know everyone can ship any pairings they want. So, I only ship my favorite pairings respectfully, and I don't judge or criticize anyone for shipping any pairings other than my favorites.
I'll always ship any pairings I want. I won't ever give a damn if anyone else judges or criticizes me for shipping a pairing that doesn't appeal to them, but I won't ever tolerate any drama.