As a song by one of my favorite Spanish groups says "Alaska y Dinarama" ... "Who cares what I do, who cares what I say, I am like this, and I will continue like this, I will never change". .. and it's true, who cares what I do with my life, as long as I don't bother anyone and I'm happy? ... Some love to touch our noses for everything, even for the most stupid and insignificant thing. And the truth, until now I had a bad time every time someone tried to bother me, now already happens everything, because life is really too short to waste time with people who are not worth it, don't you think the same? as always, only I am having thinking aloud for not to vary (lol)
I hope everyone is well ... I love them!!
That sounds like self-acceptance to me. If you can love and fully accept yourself on a deep level, no one can really touch you since you do not require their approval to feel loved and accepted. For most of my 20's I craved people's approval and validation. I needed it because I could not give it to myself. That is toxic thinking because other people are never going to give you exactly what you want, leaving you discontent. Now, honestly, I am okay with me. I don't know if I love myself, but I can be alone with myself.
I feel like a lot of this comes with age. The older you get, the less fucks you have left to give in your book of reasons to care.
Nice picture, btw.
You are really right, it has happened to me exactly the same, although I have gone very by free since I was little, I recognize that it was always important for me how others saw me, and I recognize that at some point I was like others wanted me to be only to be accepted, however , over the years I realized that true happiness is built by yourself, being yourself with your own ideas and your own personality, after all, that's you, if someone loves you of true will be to your side. On the other hand, whoever is not attracted to it will be because possibly he should not be in your life, that's how I think now, I try to avoid toxic people who only make me feel bad, and I try to surround myself with people who transmit good vibes and energy , that's what really gives me happiness ... But, you're right again, you only learn this with the years, the years are what give us true wisdom .
You know? ... these days when all leisure is closed in my area, when the weekend arrives and you can enjoy yourself, the only thing we can do is put on our helmets, a mask and go out to play sports, if the weather is good, this morning there was a frost of three pairs of noses, but ... even so I have gone for a walk through the forest near my town ... and although it is an area that I love, I felt bad, because even outdoors you can not take off your mask, and I don't know other people, but ... it overwhelms me and prevents me from breathing normally, it's more I notice that I'll go super forced (Damn, maybe it's my age ... lol. .. I'm getting older ).
I'm looking forward to going to the cinema, have a hamburger at Burger King, start buying Christmas gifts and put the tree, in short, so many and so many more things, something that always seemed normal to us, and today is all a metaphor of what one day was ... c'est la vie
I hope everyone is well ... see you soon ... Goodnight everyone ... I love them!